And that’s it. Whatever it is that you want for yourself, it doesn’t matter how crazy or impossible it may seem to you at the moment, just start acting as if it was already part of your reality, as if you were that already.
Do you want to be outgoing, talkative and flirtatious person? Well, picture yourself as if the skills you need for that were already in you, which are but only dormant, and start acting as if you were like that. Not easy, but remember that all the skills are in us, just need practice.
Acting like you are already what you want to become is taking the reins of your life and the more you visualize yourself and act “as if” you were like that, the closer you are getting to that coveted self.